FIGHT TOGETHER

FIGHT TOGETHER

Sometimes the decisions we took in our life might create an impact in our life or not. But the decision I took in my life helps me to find the real love...

I'm 23 years old engineering graduate. I completed post-graduation in engineering and I got a job in a well reputed company....
The day I got my job I felt so happy. After a strategic effort I tasted real success in my life.

I went to my mom and I said, Mom, I got a job...

Wow, congrats I'm so happy for you. I knew you would get that job.

Thanks, mom...

(My mom went to kitchen)
Mom, wait. I want to ask you one thing...
what???
Mom, I want to marry...
What??? Are you in love, son (she asked curiously)?
No, mom. Just I want arranged marriage...

(My mom started laughing)
Hey, you are just 23 years old and also just now you got Job. You are not even settled in life. This is not possible...

So, what's the point of settling in life and marriage, mom...?

Son, you got job today. Start working, save some money and buy your own house and some properties and then marry a girl or else you have to face lot of struggles in life...
Mom can I ask u one thing?
Yeah, sure.

How long did you knew dad?

After our marriage to till now, I knew your dad...

I knew you were a successful couple but did you knew everything about dad. I mean how he got job, how he built his own house and how he got economically settled in life...

Of course I knew how he settled in life. He said everything, what happened in his life before marriage.

Is it easy for him? Mom.

No....he faced lot of struggles in job and he endured lot of humiliations in his life. You know the day he said all this I felt so sad...

Is that all you did?

Yeah... (She asked mildly)

No offence, mom. You heard what happened in dad's life just as a story but my dad lived in that. He faced all those struggles in his life for the sake of two unknowns "you and me"...

I don't want a life like this, mom. I don't want someone to live with me when I got everything in life. I want my wife to love me when I have nothing in my hands, mom. The life between completing studies and getting married is the most crucial time in life for a men. I want to face all those struggles in my life along with her. I want her to be with me to support and I want her to feel that she had every rights in this family. I want her to treat equal to me.

Son, I'm really proud of you. Your wife must be really lucky.

Thanks, mom.

But will the girl's family accept for your proposal? Son

That's your part. You have to convince them. And mom, please don't ask single penny as dowry. Tell them all I want is their daughter's love and care.

Superb, this is enough. I think every parent in this world will accept now...

Please find a good proposal as soon as possible and make sure dad would accept for this.

Yeah...

Like I thought I found exactly a right girl for me and we shared all the struggles and happiness in our life equally. Wife is just not another relationship in life. She must be with you to hug you when you are happy and embrace you when you are sad....

I LOVE MY MOM AND DAD

I LOVE MY MOM AND DAD

There is a lovely married couple lived in town and they had a cute daughter named, Nira. They all lived together happily for four years. 
But it doesn't remained long until the 'devil part' in marriage life arose. They started fighting each other for simple things. She starts pestering him for simple things, thinking like she is caring. He is not ready to endure this simple misunderstanding, he also argued with her. The reason behind this was they doesn't love each other anymore...it’s gone. The marriage life was getting bored but they didn't ready to admit it.

At last they applied for divorce...

The real victim here is Nira...
She didn't even know the meaning of divorce but all she knew is her mom and dad were not going to live together.
She didn't know how to convince them either. She had been crying all day when her mom and dad were arguing.
No one is there to take care of her.
Now they were living in same house because it belongs to both of them...
She drew a painting, in that her family was standing in a park. She is standing in the middle her mom held her right hand and her dad held her left hand they were walking happily. 
She wanted to give it to her parents. Also she wanted to tell them that she want both of them...
But they are not ready to talk to her. They both were living in separate room...

The case came to judgment, the judge decided to give divorce but the problem is whom is going to take care of nira...
Her dad said ...I am the one who took good care of her. I will take care of her well, please give my daughter to me.
Though the law doesn't permit the baby to stay with father he doesn't want to lose his baby.
Her mom said...I am the one who took good care of her and also as per law the baby must stay with mother, please give my daughter to me.
They both were started arguing in court...
Then the judge called Nira.
She's is still having that painting in her hand...
Though the 5 years old baby doesn't have the right to choose decision they just asked her thought...
Nira, your mom and dad are going to get divorce which means they don't want to live together. Now, tell me. Whom do you want your 'mom or dad'?

The act that nira did stunned the whole court....

She tore that painting equally and gave it to judge 
and she said....

'Give me like this'....
I want my mom and dad...
and she ran out of the court with eyes full of tears.
Then her mom and dad realized their mistake.
Their eyes broken into tears too...
They were friends for two years and they loved each other for three years. Now they spent six years of marriage life, all of a sudden they forgot all the memories in their life and decided to divorce...
But their daughter lived with them for five years, she don't want to lose them...
They canceled their divorce for their daughter and for them and they lived happily ever after...
Sometimes it's good to admit our mistake and apologize for that. For the price of good relationship we can lose anything....

BEST SUICIDE ( A story for engineers )

            
A mechanical engineering student decided to quit his life.
His dad chosen his every decisions in his life. Though he felt hard on some decisions, he believed his father. He thought that he'll become a great person one day....

So, Right from his childhood days he scarified all his little enjoyments for studies.
His dad joined him in engineering college.
He said that, " son this is all for your good, mechanical engineering has a bright scope in future, you'll be great engineering one day"...

But things changed when he entered college. They let his hands free. On the other hand he found out how education system ruining student’s life...

That is out of every 120 students in his college batch only 60 are getting job but 120 students dreamt about the same job. Though they knew the amount of vacancies in field still the system allows more students to study engineering...
So, he decided to enjoy college life....
At last he became like what he thought,

An “Unemployed literate”,

He can’t endure this pain. He didn’t know whom he want to blame for this,

His dad? or

His college? or

Our education system? or

God?

But he is sure about one thing. The victim is “HIM”…

Though he got some small scale jobs he can’t work there just like a machine. He believed that he’ll become a great person. Even if he studied well someone in his college was going to fill his position…

Everything is over…
He thought he can’t change his life, now. He almost shattered the dreams and faith of his parents on him. So, he decided he had no reasons to live…

He had two last wishes in life…
 1.His death mustn’t hurt anyone.
 2.He want his suicide to be best.

Because he was the one sole responsible for this decision. So, he didn’t want anyone to get hurt for this and also he never done anything best in his life. So, he want his suicide to be best.

He thought lot of ways to suicide but nothing suits the best way he expected…
Hanging to death, slit the throat with knife, taking poison, over dose of sleeping pills... everything was outdated and simple.
He want a best death. But he forgot his first wish, “his death mustn’t hurt anyone". If he dies his mom and dad definitely going to get hurt. So, he thought to hide his death from his parents. So, he wrote a letter to his parents,

“Dear mom and dad,
                          Goodbye, I don't have the guts to say this in front of your eyes that's why i wrote this letter. I almost shattered the faith you both had in me and my dreams. Dad, always wants me to be a best person but I'm not. I knew how much efforts you both put to brought me up but I can't fulfil your dreams.
I'm sorry…, dad.
I can't endure this pain, mom. It’s over, I can’t fulfil your dreams, now. It’s too late.
I'm not living my life, I'm just surviving. I don't want to be like this. Especially not in front of you. I'm leaving you. Don't search me ever again in life. Please believe that I'll live a good life somewhere else in the world. I'll come back for sure when I became what you expect. I never took any decisions alone in my life. But the decision I took this time was all for our greater good.
Bye, mom....Bye, dad...If you want something to do to me ‘please don't cry for me, I'll be fine’... “  

Even though this might hurt them, he thought if they had a belief that his son was living somewhere else in the world they’ll get convinced. Then, he left home…

He decided how to quit his life. He decided to dive from a dangerous cliff in the world and to experience something new in life.
He went to that place and he stood at the edge of the cliff. Now, he could see the beauty of the whole world. He never thought that his life would end up like this. He just looked down to feel the abyss of the cliff it’s almost felt like the end of the earth but he didn’t felt the fear because he had gone through more depth of humiliations than this in his life.
He spread his legs wide and stretched his arms to feel the wind and breeze. He jumped slightly…

Suddenly he heard a noise, (group of people coming to that place)
They were adventurers. They were trying for Guinness record to dive from this cliff and land by parasailing. No one ever did this. So, three great divers came to do it at that day. Also, many people came there to see that great record. He joined with them.

First person dived from there and he couldn’t open the chute properly because that cliff is too dangerous with dense atmosphere. So, he almost landed horribly. No one knows what happened to him. Then the other two of them feared to dive.
Then he came from the crowd and he said “I’ll dive”…

But no one accepted but at last he convinced everyone and he decided to dive this time with the help of parachute. He had no plans on Guinness records all he want is to die. They explained the procedure how to use that chute and he stood at the edge of the cliff this time. Everyone around there applauded him for his death. This type of death was what he wants. But unfortunately he didn’t died he opened the chute at proper time and also he landed properly. Maybe he luckily landed properly but he didn’t had a bit of fear in his heart that was his talent and that is the real reason behind this achievement.

At last he saved the first diver he had badly injured and also his record was registered in Guinness. He became a one of best adventurous diver in the world.
Finally, he went to his home because he became like what they expected. He started his career as an adventurer. He lived with his family happily ever after…
           
Moral: 
                   Don’t think it’s too late, now. Nothing’s ever late. Live your life for your dreams. Don’t hesitate to change your foot steps to follow your dreams. Also don’t forget to watch your steps careful. Something is in you and some destination was already written for you. “Find it and fight for it “. You’ll be the best person.
                   HAVE A NICE LIFE

BLAMER? VICTIM? (Just an article)

          BLAMER?  VICTIM?

What's hot topic in India, nowadays. Is it politics, Is it social issues, Is it financial crisis, or Is it about freedom.

The answer is no...

India had a biggest gift and a curse, "Population". The word population meant for both. It depends on how we use it turns as a gift or a curse. India's backbone of economy was agriculture, once. Now it turns out into different sectors. But India's sole backbone right from the day our freedom started was "YOUNGSTERS".
Nowadays, youngsters were living in a technological world enjoying life. But in the deep down of heart they were struggling in stress, tension and insecurity. The reason behind this was just two things...

1.Engineering
2.Love

All over social media sites, films, books, gossiping these were the only topics for youngsters.

Whom we have to blame for this?

Education system? or
Western culture? or
Politicians? or
God?

But one thing was sure the victim was "Youngsters"...

Improper education system, over literacy rate in same field, unawareness of other educational practices, carelessness of students, over openings of engineering colleges. Admiration of western culture, trend of changing over lover into boyfriend/girlfriend, Insecure relationships, worst development in media were the reasons behind this crisis.

The over-literacy can be used as a gift by introducing "entrepreneurship". It can reduce unemployment rate.
Rather than attending 100's of interviews and getting rejected just because of B.E, start your own venture.

No need work like a machine.
No need to serve for others like slaves.
No need to struggle in stress, tension and fear.
No need wear tight shoes and ties even in hot summer.

Maybe B.E doesn't taught exactly about engineering but in those four years it taught us about life. With that we can achieve in business. We have to live our life rather than just surviving.

Western culture has lot of advantages but everything in this world has advantages and disadvantages equally. We have to overcome those disadvantages. Society has three different relationship between couples,

"Friend- boyfriend/girlfriend - married couple"

The relationship one in between was major problem creator. It had no proper limit in that. This was one which spoils culture, the value of love, relationship, everything....

But don't worry, "If something was hot, it will never be always hot"...
So, Let's hope for the better future...